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Dating Site Web Content

Dating sites are one of the hardest to rank due to so much duplicate content all over the internet – especially if you are using out of the box whitelabels. Luckily, some dating site sponsors allow you to add written content to the site itself. Others may be better off creating blogs that help drive traffic to their specific site. This is a post I created for the lesbian dating site Sapphic Dating as part of their overall promotional program.

Your profile on your favorite lesbian dating website is your first impression. It’s what makes ladies decide if you’re the type of person they want to get in touch with. That’s why it’s so important to get it right the first time around. Make mistakes, and you could be wasting valuable time wading through contact requests from women you’d rather not meet. So how do you make sure that your online dating profile is the best it can be? What can you do to attract the ‘right kind’ of lesbians online? Here are five tips to getting that lesbian dating profile right!

Find A Lesbian Wife OnlinePick a unique screenname that gives a glimpse into who you are. While names like “JuicyGrrl69” or “HornyBoiAries” may look unique – you’d be surprised at how many ladies pick rather sexualized names when all they are looking for is someone to talk to. Be sure that your dating site screenname not only reflect someone about you, but doesn’t give the wrong impression. “DildoSlut” would be a great name for a bottom looking for a no strings attached relationship. “GardeningMom12” shows that sex isn’t the most important factor in picking a potential partner. It’s not that one is ‘bad’ and the other ‘good’ – they just need to reflect what you’re searching for. Also resist putting any part of your real name as your dating screen name, as this can be used to locate you when you’d rather not be.

Post a flattering photo. Your profile picture doesn’t necessarily need to be one of your face, but at the very least be sure it’s a recent image of yourself. While we all know that there are more things to a great partner than looks, seeing an image of your potential lover on a lesbian dating site then meeting someone who looks quite different can be a bit nerve wracking! But, if it is, be sure that you only use that image on that site. Using Google Images, you can backwards-search an image. This means that if you are using the same picture on your Facebook profile, with your real name, someone can search for your dating site image and come up with your Facebook page. Just be careful!

Find Lesbian Love OnlineKnow what you are looking for. Why have you joined a lesbian dating site? Are you searching for a new long term partner? Other lesbians just to hang out with? A no-strings-attached lesbian relationship? Also keep in mind the type of woman you’re looking for. Use basic terms to describe yourself that would be searchable for others looking for your type.

Lay out your “must have”s, your “it would be nice if”s and your “should not” list right from the start. Start as you mean to go. In the case of dating sites for lesbians, this means lay it all out with what type of person you’re looking for. If your possible lesbian love must be a butch, like reading, and is a vegetarian non-smoker, be sure to put this in your profile. While the amount of people contacting you overall may be reduced, you’ll have more of the type of person you DO want contacting you.

Be positive, but honest. Flatter yourself in an honest but meaningful way. If you are on the older site, use term like “mature” and “experienced”. “Curvy” and “BBW” are often terms searched out by those looking for plus sized ladies. Avoid the put downs – even if meant in a joking manner. We don’t mean just when it comes to describing yourself, either. Keep away from the sarcastic style remarks like “Losers need not apply” in your lesbian dating site profile.

We also suggest that once you’ve written your lesbian dating site profile, you hold off a day before posting it. Let it sit in your word document overnight, then come back to it the next morning for a few tweaks. This will help you pick up spelling and grammar errors more easily, as you won’t be reading what you “think” you wrote, but what you actually did right. Once you’re happy with that profile, get it uploaded and get ready for your first contacts to come through. Good luck!

Sapphic Dating Lesbian Dating Site

rubylipsAfter years of writing exclusive adult content for clients, I’ve become aware of a need for lower priced, non-exclusive adult content. Using pieces that I was going to put into an anthology (before Amazon banished their adult content to the unsearchable realm), I’m now offering up twelve different short stories to purchase on a non-exclusive basis. In exchange for an extreme discount on my normal adult written content rates, you give up the copyright associated with exclusive content.

But Ruby…what is non-exclusive content good for with the possible SEO penalty for duplicate content? 

Obviously, this type of material isn’t for everyone. It’s really for a select group – those who are looking to offer paysite customers something more in the member’s area, private web forums, phone sex scripts, and for the grey and black hat world – a base for spun content. Sure, you can put this up on your open-to-Google blog, but you’re the one dealing with the possible penalties.

The pieces you’ll find on Downloads.RubyGoodnight.com are a mix of mainstream and fetish, lesbian and hetero, romantic and hardcore. I’ll be adding to the selection frequently, so be sure to bookmark the page for the latest updates. You can purchase pieces separately, or you can buy one of three bundles to save even more. If you don’t find something that you like, you can always get in touch with me and we can discuss creating non-exclusive content for your site based on your needs.

FemDom Dominatrix Blog

FemDom dominatrix blog postsFor a few months now, I have been writing a FemDom /  dominatrix blog for a third party. While I consider myself a submissive, I do have Switch tenancies, which come out when I write for this blog. The blog in itself is about a fictional dominatrix named Davina, her husband and sub who she calls ‘puppy’, and her new submissive who she is training named ‘kitten’. The webmasters want it quite stereotypical, which draws in the vanilla surfers that are their main target. While the majority of the blog is ‘scene’ replays, there are a few times where I get on my D/s soapbox.

 

Keep going…I want more…

The Breaking of Bridgette by Ruby Goodnight

The Breaking of Bridgette femdom erotica ebook Ruby GoodnightThe Breaking of Bridgette is Ruby Goodnight’s second release under Ruby Goodnight’s own pen name. This fetish erotica ebook has an estimated release of March 2012 on both Amazon and Smashwords.

FemDom Arianna had been living quite happily with her dutiful slave Marcus for a few months, but after meeting the young and naive Bridgette at a local S&M themed night club, she couldn’t resist the thought of taking her home and making her part of the ‘family’. Presented as a collection of diary entries and emails, follow Mistress Arianna through her pursuit, seduction, training, and eventual breaking of Bridgette in the latest erotica by fetish author Ruby Goodnight. 

Stay tuned for more details about The Breaking of Bridgette as the release date grows closer!

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