FemDom dominatrix blog postsFor a few months now, I have been writing a FemDom /  dominatrix blog for a third party. While I consider myself a submissive, I do have Switch tenancies, which come out when I write for this blog. The blog in itself is about a fictional dominatrix named Davina, her husband and sub who she calls ‘puppy’, and her new submissive who she is training named ‘kitten’. The webmasters want it quite stereotypical, which draws in the vanilla surfers that are their main target. While the majority of the blog is ‘scene’ replays, there are a few times where I get on my D/s soapbox.

 

Here’s an excerpt from the piece I wrote, called “It’s a Lifestyle, Not a Game“, I release a little of the frustration I felt many years ago, when a few friends found out that I was a sub.

Over the last few years, I’ve come to realize that the dominant and submissive lives we lead are just that – a lifestyle. Sure, some people like to have kinky sex in their bedrooms, a bit of hair pulling and ass slapping, but there are others (like my puppy and I) who live this life outside out bedroom. I am the Mistress 24/7, and he is my puppy equally. Our lives are lived with that in mind. Yes, we do all the things that ‘vanilla’ couples do like sharing housework and paying the bills, but at no time is my husband the ‘dom’ in the situation. I’m in control. He likes it that way, and I’ve learned to as well.

My attempt to possibly educate about FemDoms and the while dominatrix lifestyle while earning a few pennies per word, I suppose.


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